More Training Scenarios

August 10th, 2011

Growing as a leader helps you train those you oversee with more compassion and authority.  You are better able to effectively impart the vision of the house and hear the voice of the Lord.  Sometimes circumstances come along and leave us stumped as to how to respond correctly.  Here are a few scenarios for you to consider:

When someone leaves the church with a wrong motive (or in the wrong manner), and they say to you, "Will I still be able to call you?"  or "will you be mad at me?"…how do you respond?

Here is one way to approach this…inquire as to why they would want to call you – have you been sympathetic to their sin in the past?  Are you someone who has a hard time confronting in love?  Are they looking for someone to agree with their sin in order to justify it?  Counsel without authority is useless – be suspicious and know their motive for seeking you out.  They should seek counsel where they are now attending church – unless God says otherwise.

One of the members of the church is thinking about leaving and they come up to you and say, "the church over there has more ministry opportunities".  How do you respond?

I would ask them this…"are you seeking a ministry or are you seeking God's position/place for you?  Do you understand that you need to seek God where He wants you?  Be careful you are not leaving the place where God is feeding you from – there is a corporate destiny that you are a part of.  God sets those in the Body as HE chooses.  Did God call you over there or are you trying to promote yourself where God has not called you?"

How would you respond to some of these negative thoughts that the enemy could give you as a leader?

I am so overworked!    Response:  Delegate!  Spend more time with God and get a game plan to organize/prioritize your time…poor time management is often the cause of feeling overworked.

No one knows how much I am really doing!   Response:  Who are you doing it for?  Check your heart.

So-and-so talks to the pastors more than I do!   Response:  This is jealousy, pure and simple.  Just repent already.

What if the pastors did something and the thought comes to you "I would never do it that way"?  Response:  This is a heart issue and an authority issue.  There is an element of rebellion and judgment in your spirit that needs addressing immediately.

Dear ones, do not be afraid when you are unsure of what to do.  There were many times I picked up the phone and called an elder or my pastor for wisdom.  I  still lean on that wisdom to this day.  I confess that I have made many mistakes along the way, but God is bigger than my mistakes and His grace is truly sufficient.  He has covered over my errors with His enabling power and has grown me in the process. 

He loves us too much to let us stay the same!  Praise God!  Let me know what you think about these scenarios.  If you have any of your own scenarios that you would like to share, or if you have any questions, feel free to email me via "Contact Us" or just place a post below.  God bless you!

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